About Me
Why I became a counsellor
Hello, I’m Anne.
Growing up, both of my parents were mental health nurses and I sometimes spent time on my mum’s ward at weekends. From an early age, I began to understand that everyone experiences life differently and that what is happening on the inside isn’t always obvious to other people.
After having my children, I experienced postnatal depression and anxiety myself. That experience eventually led me towards counselling and a particular interest in something I still see regularly in my work today: the feeling of not being good enough.
It can show up in many different ways. You might question yourself, replay conversations, worry about what other people think or feel that whatever you do is never quite enough.
Helping people understand those thoughts, make sense of where they may have come from and begin to trust themselves more has become an important part of the way I work.
How counselling can help you
Counselling can help you understand yourself better, including the thoughts and patterns that may be keeping you stuck.
You might begin to notice why certain situations trigger self doubt, why your mind goes over things again and again, or why that “not good enough” voice seems to appear so quickly.
Understanding those patterns doesn’t mean everything changes overnight. But it can help you begin to look at things differently, make decisions with greater confidence and develop more trust in yourself.
How Counselling can help you
Counselling can help you understand yourself better, including the thoughts and patterns that may be keeping you stuck.
You might begin to notice why certain situations trigger self doubt, why your mind goes over things again and again, or why that “not good enough” voice seems to appear so quickly.
Understanding those patterns doesn’t mean everything changes overnight. But it can help you begin to look at things differently, make decisions with greater confidence and develop more trust in yourself.
What does that mean?
I want to understand you, not just what has brought you to counselling.
As we talk, we may begin to notice patterns in your thoughts, relationships and experiences. Sometimes those patterns go back much further than you realised. Other times it can be something happening in your life right now that has left you questioning yourself.
I don’t believe counselling has to mean sitting and talking without any direction. When it feels helpful, I can introduce practical ways of looking at your thoughts differently, understanding what matters to you and recognising what may be keeping you stuck.
The aim isn’t for me to give you the answers. It is to help you understand yourself well enough to begin finding your own answers, trusting yourself more and feeling more like you again.
What clients have noticed
People I have worked with have described me as warm, caring, honest and someone who helps them look at things from a different perspective.
Clients have talked about becoming aware of things they hadn’t previously recognised, understanding themselves differently and feeling more confident in moving forward.
For me, those changes matter. Sometimes progress isn’t one dramatic moment. It is noticing that you’re questioning yourself less, handling something differently or beginning to trust your own judgement again.
Ethical body
I am an accredited member of the National Counseling And Psychotherapy Society
They are an Ethical Body that check I am working ethically and up to the standard needed to counsel people.
Education
I have gained many life skills from working in retail and health-care for over thirty years. Observing people in many different life situations led me to gain a qualification in counselling.
Professional Diploma in Counselling Level 5
Teaching Meditation / Visualisation Diploma.
As a qualified counsellor I have to do 30 hours minimum continuous professional development (CPD) a year, this is additional learning and obtained by:
Course & workshops, online or face to face
Videos, books and articles.
CPD areas completed
(not exclusive)
- Depression
- Anxiety
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Understanding ADHD undiagnosed/diagnosed
- Bereavement and Loss
- Shame
- Cognitive Behaviour therapy youth and adolescents (aged 11-18yrs)
- Treating intrusive thoughts and inner critical voice
- Abuse
- Bereaved Children
- Boundaries
- Single Session Therapy
- Understanding personality disorders
- Narcissism
